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Are You A Divorcing Parent Fighting a Custody Battle and Finding Yourself Getting Nowhere in Divorce Court?
Dear Parent:
If the above heading describes your situation, I strongly encourage you to read on.... The five minutes or so that you will spend reading the information that follows, could help shape the direction of your custody case!
Please pay attention to what I am going to tell you about divorce court and decisions in custody battles. This may have very serious implications for your relationship with your children.
If you are part of the growing number of divorcing parents who find themselves caught in the middle of a nasty custody battle, this is probably your first (and hopefully your only) experience of this sort. You may find what follows to be quite surprising...
Divorce courts DON'T HAVE A CLUE what your divorce is doing to your children.
Please..
Don't Let Your Children Become Another Divorce Statistic!
If you are under the impression that your children's "best" interests will be protected in divorce court...THINK AGAIN!!
No one knows your children and what is best for them better than YOU. Think about it...divorce courts simply do not know what makes your children happy, sad, scared or angry. Divorce courts do not know how important you are to your children and how devastating it will be for them to have their relationship with you interferred with.
Divorce courts operate on family law and rules of evidence and procedure. Although this legal framework is designed to uphold "justice", it does not necessarily mean that family law decisions made by a divorce court judge will take into account the things that make your children unique and special. Nor will it take into account how meaningful your relationship with your child is to both of you.
Another important issue...
Because of the way that divorce courts operate, it is quite possible that essential information about your child's relationship with you may never get presented. Consequently, a judge will never hear it or take it into account when making a decision.
Did You Also Know that?...
....Even though most divorce attorneys are well versed in legal procedure and the art of negotiation, they often know little about family dynamics, parent-child relationships or child development. Unfortunately, the same is TRUE of most divorce court judges who oversee custody cases!
You can only imagine the implications this has for your children and your relationship with them?
As a divorcing parent, you need to do whatever you can to take control of your case by ensuring that the information pertaining to your child gets heard by the right people. To do this...
The first step is educating yourself.
The second step is educating your attorney.
And, the third step is educating the judge
To help parents get the message across to the right people - those with power... I created a detailed, fully "academically" referenced report - in court-ready format - on the issues that impact children during and post divorce.
"Children's Adjustment to Divorce"
If you still aren't totally convinced, please continue reading...
THE BOTTOM LINE IS ....
Divorce attorneys and divorce court judges know almost nothing about YOUR CHILDREN or their needs.
This is why it is ABSOLUTELY CRUCIAL that parents not only educate themselves about the effects of divorce on children but they should also educate their divorce attorneys and the judges on this same subject as well.By doing this, you position and your attorney's arguments will actually have some merit!
Here is How You Can Gain the Advantage You Need to Win Your Custody Battle in Divorce Court!
IT'S SO SIMPLE!!!!
....Educate the Ones with the Power!!!
Provide divorce courts with the information that will inform them appropriately about your children's needs - not just today but in the future too....
Being well informed about the divorcing process and the issues related to custody battles, child development and family dynamics is a MUST for parents wanting to ensure that their children's needs will be met following divorce.
But it doesn't stop there... Make sure your attorney is also informed about the issues that are essential to the best interests of children. If your attorney doesn't understand your childrens' needs or the basics of child development and family dynamics, how can he or she effectively represent you in your custody battle in divorce court?
Read on to find out how you can take charge of your custody case by informing yourself, your divorce attorney and even the divorce court judge about the issues that really matter for children.
Dr. Reena Sommer, Ph.D.
Divorce & Relationship Coach
I produced this fully referenced report citing the most important research and theories on child development, family dynamics and divorce. This report thoroughly investigates the impact of divorce and custody battles on children.
In addition to a general discussion on divorce, I have also detailed the problem of parental alienation syndrome, a condition that is not well known or understood by attorneys or judges.
Children's Adjustment to Divorce
This well written report is a content rich presentation of the relevant research and writings of experts in the field of divorce, child development and parental alienation. It is produced in a "court-ready" format, which means that it can be attached to any documents that you may file in divorce court.It is professional and credible both in appearance and in content.
This report touches on all of the important issues relevant to your children's best interests and communicates them in a way that can be easily understood by anyone who reads it.
This is a document that is sure to not only catch the attention of any divorce court judge but also let him or her know that you as a parent are deeply concerned about what happens to your child!!!
"Children's Adjustment to Divorce"
Read What Others Have To Say!
Dear Dr. Sommer:
You have no idea how helpful your report on "Children's Adjustment to Divorce" has been for me. Attorneys and judges here just "don't get it". Before ordering your report, I felt I was operating in the dark. My attorney now has a basis for making arguments in court. Thanks so so much.
John
Pedukah,Kentucky
Hi Dr. Sommer,
I just wanted to say thank you...
Your report is right on for children (and adult children) who are estranged from
their parent(s). The child really does need to see that their parent will do anything to
keep in contact or meet them...and is willing to respect the child's boundaries. The child
needs to have consistency of the parent's contact as well, as proof that the parent is
going to "be there".
Vivie
healingheart@cox.net
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In reading this report, you will discover:
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Why divorces are so disruptive to families?
What is the "normal" course of adaptation to divorce for parents and children?
Why does continued conflict between parents have such a strong impact on children's behaviour, attitudes and self concept?
The differences in how boys and girls respond to their parents' conflict
The importance of children maintaining contact with both parents
The definition of parental alienation syndrome and symptoms found in children who are affected by it
The psychological profiles of parents who are most likely to alienate their children for the other parent
The most common criticisms and rebuttals regarding the validity of parental alienation syndrome
The impact of parental alienation syndrome on children's development, self esteem and future relationships
The remedies for parental alienation syndrome
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