Thinking About Divorce
Dr. Reena Sommer
I am sure that at some time or another, almost all married people find themselves thinking about divorce.
During these times they have reached a low point in their relationship where they feel at a loss for what to do.
In most cases, these thoughts of divorce are transient and disappear once the issues causing the stress and conflict reside.
But it is when thinking about divorce becomes an ongoing preoccupation that the viability of a relationship needs some serious consideration.
The test of a relationship is when the balance between what is good about it and what is bad about it - consistently tilts toward the latter.
It is when being in the relationship becomes a burden with little or no apparent benefits.
When a relationship reaches this point, it becomes very clear that there is little reason to keep it going.
At times like this, people are challenged to consider options - whether to stay married or to divorce.
The decision to stay in a marriage is a personal one. No one can make that decision, but you.
What may be intolerable for one person may be reasonably okay for the next.
In the end, each person will have his or her own reasons for staying or leaving a marriage.
There is a lot at stake in making the decision to stay in or end a marriage.
Rarely, do people wake up one morning and impulsively decide they have had enough.
Generally speaking, the decision to end a marriage is a very difficult and painful one.
Even though divorce rates are at an all time high, society in general, still values being married.
As such, the decision to divorce does not come easily. Aside from consideration such as children, money and assets,
letting go of hopes and dreams is extremely difficult.
In assessing your future and whether or not to stay married, it is best to take your time and
avail yourself of resources to help you in this important process.
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Dr. Reena Sommer,
M.Sc. (Family Studies),
Ph.D.(Psychology & Family Studies)
Divorce & Custody Consultant
League City, TX. 77573
Dr. Reena Sommer
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