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Find out
how to minimize the emotional pain and guilt when your marriage is finally OVER!
"You
Want To End Your Marriage -
You Want To Leave Your Spouse
But You're Not EXACTLY Sure Where to Start...
Especially Now During the Recession?"
Learn
how to leave your spouse with less cost, pain and frustration in 21-Essential HOW-TO
STEPS.
Book Excerpt:
Coping When Your Spouse Goes Ballistic
"I had no idea that there were so many
things to consider when it comes to ending a marriage or a bad relationship. I also didn't
realize that there were so many options in how to actually do it.
I am so grateful that I became aware before I actually started
the divorce process "
Jerry Latham Regina, Saskatchewan (actual reader
testimonial!)
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From:
Dr. Reena Sommer
If you find yourself
living in a dead-end loveless marriage, a bad marriage or an abusive marriage
and you've decided there is no future for you and your spouse and you're tired of trying to make it work, then
...
the information that follows will be of interest to you - especially now during these difficult economic times.
I specialize in helping
people going through the heart wrenching and costly experience of ending a marriage.
My name is Dr. Reena Sommer and
I am a divorce & custody trial consultant
and strategist. On a daily basis, I help people just like you navigate
their way through ending their marriage and onto the divorce process.
Leaving
Your Marriage...
Once you've decided
to leave your marriage, its very important that you follow the right steps so that you
avoid unnecessary pain, frustration and whopping legal bills because you
were unprepared for what the divorce process is all about.
In fact, if you
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All of this IS avoidable.
Your
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Using
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"How To End A Marriage"
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I present 21 steps
that will lead you through the entire ending your marriage and divorce process - from arriving at
your decision to end your marraige to learning how to know if the new partner your find is
the ONE!
In 130+ pages of
fact-based "information" I will show (page numbers on the right
hand side!),
Step 1. How To Arrive
At Your Decision To End Your Relationship 15
Step 2. How Do You
Know You Are Doing The Right Thing? 20
Ways Of Getting Over Guilt 20
How To Avoid Hurting Children 20
How To Stop Second-Guessing Yourself? 22
How To Get Over the Fear of What Other People Might Think 23
Step 3. How To Ensure
Your Emotions Do Not Change The Outcome You Desire? 26
Reducing The "Roller Coaster Ride" - Feelings That Don't Want
To End. 29
How To Get Off The Emotional Roller Coaster Ride 30
The Common Mistakes People Make When They Use Their Emotions And Not Their
Brains. 31
Who Can I Relay On To Give You Support 35
Step 4. How To Make
The Right Decisions 44
Ways to Avoid Hard Core Litigation 50
Step 5. How To Let
Go Of Toxic Relationships. 52
What Makes Relationships Toxic 53
Abuse 53
How To Deal With Your Spouses Addictions? 55
Addictions, Codependency And Family Functioning 55
Codependency 56
Why Do I Feel So Responsible For My Partner 59
How To Deal With Control Freaks 61
What To Do If Your Spouse Is Making Threats. 62
How Do I Stop Myself From Wanting To Go Back? 63
Step 6. You've Decided
To End Your Relationship, But Now What? 65
Key Custody Issues To Consider 67
How To Simplify Your Life During The Transition. 68
Ways To Find Out How To Assess The Likelihood That Your Divorce Could
Turn Nasty 70
Step 7. Things You
Should Never Agree To When You Decide To Leave. 71
The Secrets To Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Shirt 71
Factoring Kids Into Their Post Divorce Life 72
Step 8. Moving Out
And Dividing Assets 84
How To Move Out On A Shoestring Budget. 84
The Logistics Of Moving Out 85
The Do Not's 85
The Do's 86
Step 9. Financial
87
Estimating The Financial Cost Of A Divorce. 87
Dividing Assets And Debts 87
Step 10. How To Find
The Right Time To Drop The Bomb. 88
What To Do Following Dropping The Bomb To Your Spouse 92
Step 11. Communicating
With Your Kids During Change 94
Common Mistakes Parents Make In Explaining Their Separation To Their Kids
94
What To Do Before Telling The Kids Its Over 95
How To Communicate With Your Kids Through A Time Of Dramatic Change? 95
What If The Divorce Is Between A Step Parent? 96
Step 12. How To Cope
When Your Spouse Goes Ballistic With The News You Are Leaving. 98
How Do You Cope When Your Spouse Is Going Nuts With The News That You
Want To Leave? 98
Ugly Things That Can Happen. 98
Step 13. How To Deal
With An Insane Ex? 101
To Summarize The "Insane" Analysis 101
The Risk Of Analyzing Your Ex As Insane. 101
Step 14. Dealing With
Emotional Blackmail 104
Emotional Blackmail 104
Most Common Attack Of Nasty Spouses. 105
How To Deal With Kids Being Used As Pawns In A Divorce? 105
Step 15. What Do To
If You Ex Accuses You Physical, Emotional Or Sexual Abuse? 108
Recognizing The Warning Signs That This May Be Coming 108
Step 16. Maintaining
Communication With Your Spouse. 110
Mistakes People Make Over And Over Again When Dealing With Their Ex's
110
Why Is It So Easy To Do Nothing? 111
How To Be Able To Effectively Communicate With Your Spouse During The
Divorcing Process? 112
Step 17. Find Out
Who You Are And Who You Want To Be. 114
Am I Being Selfish If I Develop My Own Interests 114
Discovering Who "You" Are 115
Step 18. How To Keep
And Maintain Relationships With The Ones You Love 117
People's Reaction To You When You Divorce 117
Some Relationships That May Be Sacrificed Along The Way 118
Loyalty Issues In Congregations And Other Similar Organizations. 119
Feeling Awkward 119
Step 19. Discover
What You Need From Your Next Relationship 121
The Are You Ready For A New Relationship Quiz 123
Assessing Whether This New Relationship Is The One For You 124
Step 20. Preventing
Old Behaviors From Ruining Your New Relationship 128
Why Do Old Behaviors Keep Repeating Themselves When I Know Better 128
Step 21. Introduce
Your New Partner To Family And Friends. 130
What Do I Do When My Friends Act Stand-Offish? 130
Why Do Children Reject The New Partner? 131
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