Find out how to minimize the emotional pain and guilt when your marriage is finally OVER!

"You Want To End Your Marriage -
You Want To Leave Your Spouse
But You're Not EXACTLY Sure Where to Start...

Especially Now During the Recession?"

Learn how to leave your spouse with less cost, pain and frustration in
21-Essential HOW-TO STEPS.

Book Excerpt: Coping When Your Spouse Goes Ballistic

"I had no idea that there were so many things to consider when it comes to ending a marriage or a bad relationship. I also didn't realize that there were so many options in how to actually do it. I am so grateful that I became aware before I actually started the divorce process "

Jerry Latham Regina, Saskatchewan (actual reader testimonial!)

From: Dr. Reena Sommer

If you find yourself living in a dead-end loveless marriage, a bad marriage or an abusive marriage and you've decided there is no future for you and your spouse and you're tired of trying to make it work, then ... the information that follows will be of interest to you - especially now during these difficult economic times.

I specialize in helping people going through the heart wrenching and costly experience of ending a marriage. My name is Dr. Reena Sommer and I am a divorce & custody trial consultant and strategist. On a daily basis, I help people just like you navigate their way through ending their marriage and onto the divorce process.

Leaving Your Marriage...

Once you've decided to leave your marriage, its very important that you follow the right steps so that you avoid unnecessary pain, frustration and whopping legal bills because you were unprepared for what the divorce process is all about.

In fact, if you don't follow a good action plan, you could find yourself unable to get a fair settlement, unable to have access to your kids or even homeless!

All of this IS avoidable.

Your Leaving the Marriage Strategy...

Using what I have learned through my work with hundreds of clients, I wrote, "How To End A Marriage"

This book teaches you step-by-step what to say and do so that you can finally leave your spouse. This ebook provides expert divorce help and information that is superior to anything else found on the Web today.

I present 21 steps that will lead you through the entire ending your marriage and divorce process - from arriving at your decision to end your marraige to learning how to know if the new partner your find is the ONE!

In 130+ pages of fact-based "information" I will show (page numbers on the right hand side!),

Step 1.
How To Arrive At Your Decision To End Your Relationship 15

Step 2.
How Do You Know You Are Doing The Right Thing? 20
Ways Of Getting Over Guilt 20
How To Avoid Hurting Children 20
How To Stop Second-Guessing Yourself? 22
How To Get Over the Fear of What Other People Might Think 23

Step 3.
How To Ensure Your Emotions Do Not Change The Outcome You Desire? 26
Reducing The "Roller Coaster Ride" - Feelings That Don't Want To End. 29
How To Get Off The Emotional Roller Coaster Ride 30
The Common Mistakes People Make When They Use Their Emotions And Not Their Brains. 31
Who Can I Relay On To Give You Support 35

Step 4.
How To Make The Right Decisions 44
Ways to Avoid Hard Core Litigation 50

Step 5.
How To Let Go Of Toxic Relationships. 52
What Makes Relationships Toxic 53
Abuse 53
How To Deal With Your Spouses Addictions? 55
Addictions, Codependency And Family Functioning 55
Codependency 56
Why Do I Feel So Responsible For My Partner 59
How To Deal With Control Freaks 61
What To Do If Your Spouse Is Making Threats. 62
How Do I Stop Myself From Wanting To Go Back? 63

Step 6.
You've Decided To End Your Relationship, But Now What? 65
Key Custody Issues To Consider 67
How To Simplify Your Life During The Transition. 68
Ways To Find Out How To Assess The Likelihood That Your Divorce Could Turn Nasty 70

Step 7.
Things You Should Never Agree To When You Decide To Leave. 71
The Secrets To Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Shirt 71
Factoring Kids Into Their Post Divorce Life 72

Step 8.
Moving Out And Dividing Assets 84
How To Move Out On A Shoestring Budget. 84
The Logistics Of Moving Out 85
The Do Not's 85
The Do's 86

Step 9.
Financial 87
Estimating The Financial Cost Of A Divorce. 87
Dividing Assets And Debts 87

Step 10.
How To Find The Right Time To Drop The Bomb. 88
What To Do Following Dropping The Bomb To Your Spouse 92

Step 11.
Communicating With Your Kids During Change 94
Common Mistakes Parents Make In Explaining Their Separation To Their Kids 94
What To Do Before Telling The Kids Its Over 95
How To Communicate With Your Kids Through A Time Of Dramatic Change? 95
What If The Divorce Is Between A Step Parent? 96

Step 12.
How To Cope When Your Spouse Goes Ballistic With The News You Are Leaving. 98
How Do You Cope When Your Spouse Is Going Nuts With The News That You Want To Leave? 98
Ugly Things That Can Happen. 98

Step 13.
How To Deal With An Insane Ex? 101
To Summarize The "Insane" Analysis 101
The Risk Of Analyzing Your Ex As Insane. 101

Step 14.
Dealing With Emotional Blackmail 104
Emotional Blackmail 104
Most Common Attack Of Nasty Spouses. 105
How To Deal With Kids Being Used As Pawns In A Divorce? 105

Step 15.
What Do To If You Ex Accuses You Physical, Emotional Or Sexual Abuse? 108
Recognizing The Warning Signs That This May Be Coming 108

Step 16.
Maintaining Communication With Your Spouse. 110
Mistakes People Make Over And Over Again When Dealing With Their Ex's 110
Why Is It So Easy To Do Nothing? 111
How To Be Able To Effectively Communicate With Your Spouse During The Divorcing Process? 112

Step 17.
Find Out Who You Are And Who You Want To Be. 114
Am I Being Selfish If I Develop My Own Interests 114
Discovering Who "You" Are 115

Step 18.
How To Keep And Maintain Relationships With The Ones You Love 117
People's Reaction To You When You Divorce 117
Some Relationships That May Be Sacrificed Along The Way 118
Loyalty Issues In Congregations And Other Similar Organizations. 119
Feeling Awkward 119

Step 19.
Discover What You Need From Your Next Relationship 121
The Are You Ready For A New Relationship Quiz 123
Assessing Whether This New Relationship Is The One For You 124

Step 20.
Preventing Old Behaviors From Ruining Your New Relationship 128
Why Do Old Behaviors Keep Repeating Themselves When I Know Better 128

Step 21.
Introduce Your New Partner To Family And Friends. 130
What Do I Do When My Friends Act Stand-Offish? 130
Why Do Children Reject The New Partner? 131

By purchasing my book, you can take a short cut by using all the information in it to make informed decisions about how to end your marriage.

Download and view "How To End A Marriage"on your computer now or print it out for viewing offline. Either way, it can be in your hands in only a few minutes. Only available from this site because this book is not available in stores.

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"Everything you have written is so true - like having a plan of action before you talk to your spouse. I also liked what you had to say about how to cope when your spouse goes "ballistic". Anyone considering or going through a divorce can save a lot of aggravation and money by following the advice in your e-book. None of my divorced friends or even my attorney came up with anything as helpful as what you have in your e-book. "

Maxine Bonner Fergus Falls, Minnesota


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